Generally, lesbians prefer to be romantically linked with a woman rather than with a man. Unless the lesbian is a bi-sexual woman, she may want to be with both genders, man and woman. If you have a homo brain. It’s all in the brain structure. There’s nothing you can do but embrace it. Your family hating you for being gay is like hating you for your skin color. Some family will pretty much kick you out. But believe me or not, it is actually not your fault.
When a moment that you are born to few years of age your brain starts picking up things you see, hear, taste, touch, feel and smell. Brain handles all the information. Some parts of the brain contain the information differentl, which can lead to fearness, paranoia, and homosexuality. Another incurated information is that the possibility of being homo, bi, or tran is that one of your ancesters is homo, bi, or tran. Another possibly thing is that the emotional attraction which happens inside your head and heart. This attraction can lead to the sexual attraction later.
If you know and even if you don’t know, just share your thoughts so every lesbian, bi, tran, and gay can learn from you and each other.