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février 2016

Le bonheur est un choix

I am in charge of how I feel, and today I choose happiness

Le bonheur est un choix. On peut choisir à être joyeux. Il y a tout de temps de stress. Il y a toujours de malheur mais c’est notre choix si on le laisse à nous effectuer. On a de choix  de comment on vit notre vie. Même si la vie est composée beaucoup de malheureux, il ne veut rien dire qu’on ne peut pas vivre sans misérable.  Le bonheur est un choix qu’on fait et créé pour nous-même. Le bonheur ne vient pas des autres qui nous donne le feu vert. Mais il vient de dedans, de l’intérieur. Le bonheur ne vient pas à nous, mais il viens de nous. Il y a beaucoup de personnes qui vivent heureusement avec rien du tout.

Effet, il y a 4 facteurs qui nous amènent des malheureux :

  1. Demander: parfois on attend les autres trop parce-qu’on est prêt de faire beaucoup pour eux.
  2. Égoïste: on manque une considération pour les autres. On oublie l’amitié. On  ne veut plus d’avoir des amis. On ne veut que les clients.
  3. Jalousie: il faut qu’on supprime ce facteur. C’est lui qui nous séduit de faire mal au autres.
  4. Passé: Quand

Death fell in love with Life.

12615385_10153979049208489_6174470210561237054_oOnce apon a time, there was a Death lived alone in a forest far far away. He was very happy to bring lives to death. One touch from Death, nothing can survive, not even flower. In the same forest, there was a girl who lived alone. Girl never sees Death .And Death never meets girls either. One day, while the girl was sleeping, Death saw her. Death looked at her face and fell in love. Death forgot everything and spent hours/days/weeks hiding in the bush to watch her. He saw her playing around with other animals, he saw her eats, runs, sleeps.. The more he looked, the more he fell in love.

After months, the girl accidentaly saw Death. She fell in love with Death too. They both talked, laughed, played with each other. The girl made umbrella for the Death to protect the sun, so Death could walk under the sun. Death protected girls from other cruel animals. They both loved each other.  One day, girl asked Death to hold each other’s hand for once, even she knew she would die afterwards. Death didn’t agree at first, but since girl insisted; he agreed. The girl died while holding Death’s hand. She was very happy. For the love, just holding hand for once in a life time is enough!

« Everyone says love is blind. But I say  life is blind without love »



ស្រី ៖ បន្ថយ​ល្បឿន​មើល! ខ្ញុំ​ខ្លាច!
ប្រុស​ ៖ ទេ សប្បាយ​សោះ​នឹង! ស្រី ៖ សប្បាយ​អី គួរ​ឲ្យ​ខ្លាច!
ប្រុស​ ៖ ចឹង​និយាយ​ថា ស្រលាញ់​បង​មក?
ស្រី ៖ អូ​ខេ អួន​ស្រលាញ់​បង! បន្ថយ​ល្បឿន​បាន​នៅ?
ប្រុស​ ៖ ចឹង​អោប​បង​ឲ្យ​ខ្លាំង​មើល? (នាងក៏អោប)
ប្រុស​ ៖ អូន​អាច​យក​មួក​ការ​ពារ​បង​ចេញ ហើយ​ពាក់​វា​បាន​ទេ? បង​រមាស់​ក្បាល​ណាស!

ក្នុង​ការ​សែត​បាន​ចេញ​ផ្សាយ ៖ ម៉ូតូ​ដាច​ហ្វ្រាំង បុក​អាគារ រស់​មួយ​ស្លាប់​មួយ។

ការ​ពិត​នោះ​គឺ ជិះ​បាន​ពាក់​កណ្ដាល​ផ្លូវ បុរស​ដឹង​ថា​ម៉ូតូ​ដាច​ហ្វ្រាំង ប៉ុន្តែ​គាត់​មិន​ចង​ឲ្យ​មិន​ស្រី​ដឹង។ ផ្ទុយ​ទៅ​វិញ គាត់​ឲ្យ​មិត្តស្រី​របស់​គាត់​អោបគាត់​ជា​លើក​ចុង​ក្រោយ ហើយ​ឲ្យនាង​ពាក់​ពួក​សុវត្តិភាព។ ធ្វើ​ដូច្នេះ មិន​ស្រី​របស់​គាត់​អាច​រស់ បើ​ទោះ​ជា​គាត់​ត្រូវ​ស្លាប់​ក៏​ដោយ។

How easy is Khmer language?

IMG_4644Most countries in Asia seem to have their own unique language system, like writing system. Khmer is no exception. Cambodian language is called Khmer.

Khmer writing system has 24 dépendent vowels, 14 indépendent vowels, 33 consonants (originally there were 35 consonants), and 10 supplementary consonants. Most dependent vowels have two different pronunciations, depending in most cases on the inherent vowel of the consonant to which they are added. Every consonant has its subscript form (perhaps it sounds similar to Capital letters and Small letters but it isn’t).

Khmer prononciation is rich. How about trying to differentiate these sounds:

k & kh, t & th, p & ph, ch & chh & j, d & dh, b & bh, nh & n & ng

They are amazing, aren’t they? One of the arguments for why Chinese is tonal is because it is a mono syllable language. Each word is only one syllable or a combination of one syllable words. As there are a limited number of single syllables that can be made, a particular sound, such as dai might appear in twenty different words, with completely different meanings. The way they differentiate between them is through tones. In contrast, Khmer isn’t a tonal language (yeah, cheers..).  Let’s try to pronounce these complex compound consonants:

pht (phteh = home), thng (thngai = day), chhn (chhnang = pot), phch (phchanh = to fail s.o), strr (saSTRacha = professor), phng (phnga = to turn up side down), …

Khmer listening is  a challenge for westerners. All the end-sounds are not strongly prounced like in French or English. Since Khmer is a lazy language, words are mostly combined and shortened. For example :

Meaning : Where are you going?
Full : Teur nek kompong tov ti na?
Shorten : kompong tov na?
Combine : M’pong tna?

Come on! Don’t give up yet! We are almost half-way there!

Khmer has anywhere from 40 – 80 vowel sounds, depending on who’s counting and which regional dialect they are studying. As a result, there are lots of sounds that sound identical to western ears, but have completely different meanings in Khmer. But it is an advantage for someone who already studied Thai, the vowels in Thai were taken from Khmer. So, you would already have been exposed to about 10% of the language. Instead of a hundred years to master the language, as I estimated you would need 90 years to complete.

Can I wear an underwear on an airplane?

1048036_10151736701818489_654717345_oMy dad lives in Phnom Penh, and mum lives in Sihanoukville (beach). I live with them both. This means I often (must) go to live with one of them twice a week at least. When I was a bit younger, I even went twice per day. The airplane in Sihanoukville is few minutes walk from the beach. So; while waiting for the flight, beach becomes my lobby. Actually I just pull a short shorts over my bikini. The flight is only 15minutes directly from the beach to Phnom Penh. I have no luggage, just my ID card bag. On the plane, I am offered blankets to keep warm, since airplanes are air conditioned . I wonder if I could wear my beach underwear on the airplane since it’s very close and I am still offered blankets anyway?  An other thing is I also want to show off my outfit body with my expensive Cambodian hand-made brand bikini (That’s why we buy that expensive underwear, right?).

How to forget someone you love so much?

Sometimes things are meant for someone else

Deleting someone from your mind isn’t an easy target like deleting their pictures. We are not robots and we certainly will remember the person we used to love.  But the problem isn’t about remembering the person but can’t stop these thoughts from growwing, wishing her/him was here and thinking of the possibility of getting her/him back.

When people lose hope in getting something that they really wanted they usually become depressed and stressed which leads to comitting suicide.

I think you understand the feeling. The feeling that you love someone who may have loved you once upon a time or you loved someone deeply who loved you deeply and then this person just switched off and hurt you in ways that were unimaginable. To be honest, I have tried many things to forget that person. I have dated lots of people. I stopped keeping in touch, no phone calls, no re-reading our old messages. But these don’t help me. You have any clue to help me?


Helmet saves your life« ខ្ញុំ​មិន​ចូល​ចិត្ត​ពាក់​មួក​សុវត្ថិភាព​ទេវាបំផ្លាញមូត​សក់​របស់​ខ្ញុំ »។ « ជិះមើកៗ ដូចអណ្ដើក កុំស្រែពែក »។

នៅ​​តំបន់​​អ៊ឺរ៉ុប រៀង​រាល់​និ​ទា​ឃ​រដូវ កង់ រថយន្ ម៉ូតូមាន​នៅ​ពាសពេញ។ ប៉ុន្តែនៅក្នុងប្រទេសកម្ពុជា ៣៦៥ថ្ងៃ​ក្នុង​១ឆ្នាំ រថយន្ត​ និងម៉ូតូរមៀល​ឥត​ឈប់​ឈរ​នៅ​លើ​ផ្លូវ

ឆ្នើម​មួយ​រូប ដែល​ទើប​តែបាន​បញ្ចប់ការសិក្សារគ្មានអ្វីខុសគ្នាពី​អ្នក​​​រាជធានី​ភ្នំពេញ នាង​មិន​​ដែល​គោរព​​ច្បាប់​​ចរា​ចរណ៍។
ថ្ងៃមួយ​ដែល​​ជា​​ថ្ងៃ​​ខួប​កំណើត​​របស់​មិត្ត​​របស់​នាង​ម្នាក់​ នាង​បាន​ធ្វើ​មូត​សក់​យ៉ាង​ស្អាត់។​ « មួក​ការ​ពារ​នៅ​ណា ម៉េច​មិន​ពាក់? » មិត្ត​នាង​ដែល​ជិះ​ម៉ូតូ​ជា​មួយ​នាង​សួរ។ « ខ្ញុំ​មិន​ចូល​ចិត្ត​ពាក់​មួក​សុវត្ថិភាព​ទេវាបំផ្លាញមូត​សក់​របស់​ខ្ញុំ » នាងតប « តោះទៅ យើងយឺតហើយ« ។ ពួគគេជិះម៉ូតូ។   « ជិះមើកៗ ដូចអណ្ដើក កុំស្រែពែក។«  នាងនិយាយ « ចាំគ្នាឌុបវិញ« ។ នាងជិះលឿនស្លេវ។ ពេលដល់​ផ្លូវ​​កែង ស្រាប់​ទេ​នាង​ទោ​ប៉ះ​ជា​មួយ​ម៉ូតូ​មួយ​ទៀត​ពេញ​ទំហឹង។ ពេល​នាង​ភ្ញាក់​ឡើង នាង​កំពុង​នៅ​ក្នុង​ឡាន​ពេទ្​យទៅ​ហើយ។ ក្បាលរបស់នាងបែកយ៉ាងធ្ងន់ធ្ងរ ដោយនាងមិនបានពាក់មួកការពារ ជើង​និង​ដៃ​របស់​នាង​បាក់។ នាង​ខំ​ប្រឹង​បើក​ភ្លែក ហើយ​សួរ​ពេទ្យ​ដែល​អង្គុយ​ក្បែរ​នោះ។ « មិត្ត​របស់​ខ្ញុំ​យ៉ាង​ម៉េច​ហើយ? » នាង​សួរ។ ពេទ្យ​ក៏​តប « នាង​បាន​បាត់​បង់​ជីវិត​ហើយ« ។ « ចុះ​អ្នក​បើក​ម៉ូតូ​មួយ​ទៀត​នោះ? » នាង​បន្តរ​សួរ។ « ក៏​ស្លាប់​បាត់​ហើយ​ដែរ » ពេទ្យ​ឆ្លើយ។ « អ្នក​គ្រូពេទ្យ អាច​ផ្ញើរ​សារ​ប្រាប់​ប៉ា​ម៉ាក់​របស់ខ្ញុំ​បាន​ទេ​ថា​ខ្ញុំ​សុំ​ទោស​ដែល​មិន​ស្ដាប់​ដំបូមាន​របស់​គាត់?  » នាង​សួរ​ក្នុង​ដង្ហើម​ចុង​ក្រោយ តែ​អ្នក​គ្រូពេទ្យ​មិន​បាន​ឆ្លើយ​នឹង​សំនួរទេ។ ប្អូន​ជីដូន​មួយ​របស់​ខ្ញុំ​បាន​ស្លាប់​ប្រមាន​១​ទៅ​២​នាទី​ក្រោយ​​មក។ លោក​ដុកទ័រ​បាន​ស្ដីបន្ទោស​អ្នក​គ្រូពេទ្យ​ថា ហេតុ​អ្វី​មិន​យល់​ព្រម​និង​បំណង​ចុង​ក្រោយ​របស់​​នាង។ « ខ្ញុំ​មិន​ចង​ឲ្យ​នាង​ដឹង​ថា អ្នក​ដែល​នាង​បុក​ស្លាប់​នោះ​គឺ ជា​ឪពុក​ម្ដាយ​របស់​នាង​ទេ! » អ្នក​គ្រូ​ពេទ្យ​ឆ្លើយ​ទាំង​ទឹក​មុក​គ្រៀម​ក្រំ។

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